Expectations

20140709-094411-35051001.jpgIt’s funny what you get used to.

When a guy talks to you all of the time and gives you a lot of attention, you expect that attention. Long for it. Crave it.

But when life gets in the way and he stops paying you that same attention, it’s hard not to catch an attitude. It’s hard not to be mad at him for not showing you the same attention, even when he has legitimate reasons not to or when the ebb in attention is only temporary.

It’s hard to find balance. Women are greedy. We want it all.

The best advice I can give is to be flexible. Love the attention when it comes. Be patient when it doesn’t. It will come around again. It’s all in the attitude.

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